End The Fighting, Blame, And Criticism In Your Relationship -
Once And For All.
You Can Finally Feel Blissfully Connected, Appreciated, and Understood
Learn what we taught on “Oprah” and what millions of readers already know about how to completely transform even the
most difficult of relationships into one of harmony, ease and honesty. We use these secrets every day in our
30+ years of marriage, and we can’t wait to share them with you.
Do you recognize any of these vicious cycles in your relationship?
You and your partner are always fighting. Often about the same topic, over and over again.
You feel like you never get what you need. It’s like your partner never listens to you. And you don’t feel much
like listening, either.
You keep having the same argument over and over. About money. About chores. About when – and how often – to have sex.
If you have kids, you argue about how to parent them.
You feel utterly unappreciated, disconnected and alone. You are angry at your partner, at yourself. You are scared that ease and
happiness is not possible, and you long to feel connected and inspired again.
Your relationship exists in a never ending cycle of frustration and hopelessness, and you can’t make things better no matter what
Believe it or not – these feelings and problems are very common. We had the same problems in our relationship – and saw just
how damaging they could be.
When one of these fights starts, the “fuse gets shorter” each time, and the littlest thing can trigger a full-blown
fight – out of nowhere.
And the cycle of conflict increases. It becomes self-perpetuating, self-sustaining, and seemingly unstoppable.
But it is stoppable.
No matter how difficult it seems at this moment, things can change. You can be blissfully connected again.
And here’s how.
Feel close, connected and in love again
You CAN Break Free From The Destructive Patterns That Have Been Running Your Life
Every day, no matter where we are in the world, we meet people like you who desperately want to change their relationship.
And every day we watch miracles happen.
Couples who couldn’t stand the sight of each other, melting into each other’s arms.
Decades-long freeze-outs ending in shared tears and easy laughter.
Horrible truths that have haunted one partner revealed – and transformed – into bedrocks of intimacy.
In participating in these transformations – literally hundreds of thousands of them – we have learned that no matter
how difficult it is with you and your partner, all of it – every last painful bit – can be transformed into
something filled with joy, passion, honesty and celebration.
No matter how little intimacy, laughter, sex or closeness you currently share…
Or how frequent the finger-pointing, blaming, anger, sadness, fear and jealousy…
Or how many times you’ve had the same fight on a seemingly endless loop…
You can end it all. You can burn all those terrible feelings to the ground. You can be free of them… forever. And out
of the ashes, you can create a new relationship. A relationship filled with wonder, play and appreciation.
You wouldn’t be here, reading this letter, if you didn’t believe this is possible.
And you are right. And because of this belief – because you are taking this first small step to wonder if things can
You have the power to transform your relationship. And you can do it with your partner, or you can initiate the change all
15 Years Without Blame And Criticism
When we met more than 30 years ago, we were both yearning for a new kind of relationship. We’d both been in marriages that
left us unsatisfied. Gay had struggled through cycles of blame and criticism, while Katie felt stunted and unfulfilled.
We wanted to be able to be completely honest, and share our deepest, most difficult feelings and desires. We wanted to stop
living in a world of constant criticism and complaint. We wanted to break the cycle our parents struggled through, and create
something that fulfilled us as a couple, and as individuals.
It took us a few years to figure out how to make this deeply connected, criticism-free vision a reality, but we did it. Our
relationship became a living laboratory – and once we saw the transformative power in our own lives, we turned it into a
system we could teach others.
Once we saw the transformative power in our own relationship, we turned it into a
system we could teach others.
Since then, we’ve been on Oprah and 500 other TV and radio shows. We’ve been published in dozens of magazines and
newspapers. We’ve got PHDs and 36 published books – 6 of them bestsellers. We’ve coached high-profile
celebrities, CEOs and “Average Joes”.
But we don’t consider ourselves experts because of all this media, or even the thousands of individual couples
we’ve helped in our living room and live trainings.
We are experts because we haven’t traded a cross word since the 1990’s.
That’s right. More than 15 years without criticizing each other, or finger-pointing, or going to bed angry, or feeling
unsupported. More than 15 years in blissful harmony that we savor and are grateful for each day.
It wasn’t easy to get to this point, and we certainly had our bumps and bruises along the way, but here we are, and we
want to teach all that we’ve learned to you.
The Relationship Breakthrough You’ve Been Aching For
Are you really ready to profoundly transform your relationship?
We think you are, and we’ve given everything we’ve got to help you do it. We took 30 years of breakthroughs and
tools and codified them into a system that will change your life.
We reveal this system, which we simplified into 5 life-changing keys, in our foundational program, Breakthrough to
This program will give you all you need to permanently end the complaints, fights, blame and criticism wreaking havoc on your
love life, and create a new relationship that overflows with joy and vitality.
Our unique full-body approach to learning literally reprograms your mind and body with every breath you take. We use meditation,
journal exercises, movement, personal stories, statistics and more to help you break free of the cycle holding you captive, and
give you a new roadmap to lasting love and intimacy.
Everything we teach has been kitchen-and-bedroom tested by us. The tools in this program have helped us through the ups and
downs of raising kids, going from being broke to being wealthy, several multi-state moves, and even just figuring out who does
the dishes. The tools work, and we know that in our bones.
You’ll see changes right away, even if only one partner is committed to the journey.
And as you practice, it gets better and better. Fights become less and less frequent, and intimacy and shared laughter happens
more and more.
In this breakthrough program, you’ll learn:
- The same 5 tools we’ve used to consistently and continuously generate a flow of passion and harmony
within our own marriage – and how you can transform your relationship, no matter how stuck or
frustrated you feel right now
- The tried-and-true technique to turn your relationship into a blame-free zone – doing this
will cause a surge of vitality and good feeling between the two of you
- The quick and fool-proof way to spot the unconscious drivers that are hindering your ability to
fully experience all the love you're meant to enjoy
- Why traditional wedding vows are a recipe for disappointment, and how to make new promises to each
other that create a truly enduring and forever-deepening bond
- The not-so-obvious reason you're feeling compelled to criticize each other – and a simple,
enjoyable strategy that will reverse the pattern of criticism in a relationship (even one hour a week
doing this will produce magical results)
- Why relationship breakdowns are actually a good thing, and how to use any crisis as a springboard
to a whole new level of intimacy in your relationship
- The 5 listening filters or shields that will prevent you from truly connecting with your partner
– becoming aware of these will help you get to know your partner in ways you never have before
- The best aphrodisiac anyone has ever discovered (it's powerful, works instantly, you can do it
anytime, and it won't cost you a thing)
- The 4 key feelings you must be able to communicate to your partner – plus a simple, powerful
2-step process to help you accurately identify and clearly express your emotions
- The quickest way we know of to enhance the flow of positive energy in any relationship (this is our
favorite tool – one we can't live without. If you have 10 seconds, you can do this!)
- The 2 commitment problems that are responsible for much of the energy drain in a relationship –
3 out of 5 couples experience significant enhancement in their relationship when they recommit in the way
we’ll teach you
Powerful Change Is Just A Few Clicks Away
If you were one of our clients, the tools and training in this program would cost you thousands of dollars. We know this
isn’t realistic for most couples, and that’s why we created a program that gives all the benefits of our in-person
trainings, but costs much less.
For 3 low payments of $39.67,
you’ll get all you need to transform your relationship:
- Almost four hours of advice that you can listen to immediately, either online or downloaded into your MP3 player
- A 30+ page workbook with 20+ exercises to help you develop the skills you need for effortless bliss
- Our Relationship Harmonizer: a special soundtrack designed to help singles and couples create deep mental, emotional,
and spiritual rapport and connection, facilitating the creation of a deep and lasting bond
Because we know the powerful impact this program will have on your life, we don’t want you to have any reason not to
try it. If you aren’t completely satisfied once you try out this program, you can return it hassle-free within the first
7 days. We’ll refund every penny, no questions asked.
- End the fighting, blame and criticism… forever
- The 5 most important keys of joyous, connected love
- Finally feel completely appreciated and understood
- Compatible with any MP3 player, tablet, computer and more!
4+ hours of powerful advice and techniques,
20 workbook exercises and more!
Love is our greatest gift. It’s the source of inspiration, the flow that allows us to contribute to the world. The origin
of our health, happiness and harmony.
When our relationships thrive, we have endless amounts of energy and creativity flowing through our bodies. We do better at work.
We are healthier. We invent. We play.
When our relationships struggle, we struggle. All of our energy is drained by the cycle of blame, criticism and conflict. We are
at war with each other, and ourselves.
We want you to end the war. And Breakthrough To Bliss is the best way to do it.
We’ll leave you with this question:
Why spend another day in anything less than a vibrant, connected, wonderfully abundant relationship?
You may not be able to change the past, but you can create a new, brighter future… one choice at a time.
Try Breakthrough To Bliss today. You’ll be delighted by what you can invent.
Katie & Gay Hendricks