Do you recognize any of these vicious cycles in your relationship?
You and your partner are always fighting. Often about the same topic, over and over again.
You feel like you never get what you need. It’s like your partner never listens to you. And you don’t feel much like listening, either.
You keep having the same argument over and over. About money. About chores. About when – and how often – to have sex.
If you have kids, you argue about how to parent them.
You feel utterly unappreciated, disconnected and alone. You are angry at your partner, at yourself. You are scared that ease and happiness is not possible, and you long to feel connected and inspired again.
Your relationship exists in a never ending cycle of frustration and hopelessness, and you can’t make things better no matter what you try.
Believe it or not – these feelings and problems are very common. We had the same problems in our relationship – and saw just how damaging they could be.
When one of these fights starts, the “fuse gets shorter” each time, and the littlest thing can trigger a full-blown fight – out of nowhere.
And the cycle of conflict increases. It becomes self-perpetuating, self-sustaining, and seemingly unstoppable.
But it is stoppable.
No matter how difficult it seems at this moment, things can change. You can be blissfully connected again.
And here’s how.
Every day, no matter where we are in the world, we meet people like you who desperately want to change their relationship. And every day we watch miracles happen.
Couples who couldn’t stand the sight of each other, melting into each other’s arms.
Decades-long freeze-outs ending in shared tears and easy laughter.
Horrible truths that have haunted one partner revealed – and transformed – into bedrocks of intimacy.
In participating in these transformations – literally hundreds of thousands of them – we have learned that no matter how difficult it is with you and your partner, all of it – every last painful bit – can be transformed into something filled with joy, passion, honesty and celebration.
No matter how little intimacy, laughter, sex or closeness you currently share…
Or how frequent the finger-pointing, blaming, anger, sadness, fear and jealousy…
Or how many times you’ve had the same fight on a seemingly endless loop…
You can end it all. You can burn all those terrible feelings to the ground. You can be free of them… forever. And out of the ashes, you can create a new relationship. A relationship filled with wonder, play and appreciation.
You wouldn’t be here, reading this letter, if you didn’t believe this is possible.
And you are right. And because of this belief – because you are taking this first small step to wonder if things can change…
You have the power to transform your relationship. And you can do it with your partner, or you can initiate the change all by yourself.
When we met more than 30 years ago, we were both yearning for a new kind of relationship. We’d both been in marriages that left us unsatisfied. Gay had struggled through cycles of blame and criticism, while Katie felt stunted and unfulfilled.
We wanted to be able to be completely honest, and share our deepest, most difficult feelings and desires. We wanted to stop living in a world of constant criticism and complaint. We wanted to break the cycle our parents struggled through, and create something that fulfilled us as a couple, and as individuals.
It took us a few years to figure out how to make this deeply connected, criticism-free vision a reality, but we did it. Our relationship became a living laboratory – and once we saw the transformative power in our own lives, we turned it into a system we could teach others.
Since then, we’ve been on Oprah and 500 other TV and radio shows. We’ve been published in dozens of magazines and newspapers. We’ve got PHDs and 36 published books – 6 of them bestsellers. We’ve coached high-profile celebrities, CEOs and “Average Joes”.
But we don’t consider ourselves experts because of all this media, or even the thousands of individual couples we’ve helped in our living room and live trainings.
We are experts because we haven’t traded a cross word since the 1990’s.
That’s right. More than 15 years without criticizing each other, or finger-pointing, or going to bed angry, or feeling unsupported. More than 15 years in blissful harmony that we savor and are grateful for each day.
It wasn’t easy to get to this point, and we certainly had our bumps and bruises along the way, but here we are, and we want to teach all that we’ve learned to you.
Are you really ready to profoundly transform your relationship?
We think you are, and we’ve given everything we’ve got to help you do it. We took 30 years of breakthroughs and tools and codified them into a system that will change your life.
We reveal this system, which we simplified into 5 life-changing keys, in our foundational program, Breakthrough to Bliss. This program will give you all you need to permanently end the complaints, fights, blame and criticism wreaking havoc on your love life, and create a new relationship that overflows with joy and vitality.
Our unique full-body approach to learning literally reprograms your mind and body with every breath you take. We use meditation, journal exercises, movement, personal stories, statistics and more to help you break free of the cycle holding you captive, and give you a new roadmap to lasting love and intimacy.
Everything we teach has been kitchen-and-bedroom tested by us. The tools in this program have helped us through the ups and downs of raising kids, going from being broke to being wealthy, several multi-state moves, and even just figuring out who does the dishes. The tools work, and we know that in our bones.
And as you practice, it gets better and better. Fights become less and less frequent, and intimacy and shared laughter happens more and more.
With your Breakthrough To Bliss purchase, you’ll have the opportunity to experience our powerful Lasting Love Every Day video mentoring series. These daily "mini lessons" help couples recommit to more love, better communication and positive feelings in less than 5 minutes a day—and they’re FUN!
You can try the first month completely free. After that, you’ll be billed only $19.97 per month ($10 off the regular price). That’s less than 1 dollar a day!
Our daily videos are packed with the MOST effective tools and techniques to bring more harmony and resilience to your relationship. If, for any reason, you aren’t completely satisfied within the first month, simply let us know and we will cancel the subscription – no questions asked. You’ll still get to keep the first month’s videos for free.
4+ hours of powerful audio: tips, techniques & workbook exercises
You’ll be able to access the program within minutes of purchasing.
7 full days of unlimited access before deciding to keep it.
Not 100% thrilled? Let us know and we’ll give you a full refund.
If you were one of our clients, the tools and training in this program would cost you thousands of dollars. We know this isn’t realistic for most couples, and that’s why we created a program that gives all the benefits of our in-person trainings, but costs much less.
For 3 low payments of $49.97, you’ll get all you need to transform your relationship:
Because we know the powerful impact this program will have on your life, we don’t want you to have any reason not to try it. If you aren’t completely satisfied once you try out this program, you can return it hassle-free within the first 7 days. We’ll refund every penny, no questions asked.
When our relationships thrive, we have endless amounts of energy and creativity flowing through our bodies. We do better at work. We are healthier. We invent. We play.
When our relationships struggle, we struggle. All of our energy is drained by the cycle of blame, criticism and conflict. We are at war with each other, and ourselves.
We want you to end the war. And Breakthrough To Bliss is the best way to do it.
We’ll leave you with this question:
Why spend another day in anything less than a vibrant, connected, wonderfully abundant relationship?
You may not be able to change the past, but you can create a new, brighter future… one choice at a time.
Try Breakthrough To Bliss today. You’ll be delighted by what you can invent.
4+ hours of powerful audio: tips, techniques & workbook exercises
“Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks are masters in the art of intimacy.”
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“If you ask me, Gay and Katie are the perfect exemplars for stunningly conscious, incredibly loving, ever evolving and utterly fabulous relationships. When I grow up, I want to be just like them.
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“I've known Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks as friends for many years. I am so deeply impressed with the love, wisdom, and clarity that Kathlyn and Gay bring to their work. Their insights on relationships can be life-changing. Our most personal interactions with each other mark the core of our experience as humans. This is where the real growth is, this is where the real opportunity for true soul work begins. Kathlyn and Gay are gifts to the heart and soul, opening both to new and grander experiences.”