In fact, it often triggers the very actions that destroy a relationship.
Withdrawal. Anger. Snippy comments. Criticism. Being “too busy.” Being distant and unavailable. Feeling smothered. Power struggles. Anxiety…
Any of those things sound familiar?
Here’s what happens:
Your relationship starts out in a state of bliss. You think you’ve found “the one” and that finally… finally… you’ll get the intimacy you crave.
You think you’ve found the person who’ll love you unconditionally, listen to you when you feel vulnerable or down, support you when life gets stormy. You’ve found your best friend, your true confidant and an exciting lover.
But then… cracks begin to show.
Suddenly, he starts acting different. Aloof. Uninterested. Unavailable. Combative.
You start acting different.
And feeling different.
And you are devastated, because love has disappointed you, AGAIN, and you are doubting your judgement, and wondering why it’s so HARD to make it work.
You thought this time was different.
And then everything fell apart.
As much as we long for deeply satisfying, fully intimate love, most people spend more time struggling with loneliness, disconnection and hurt feelings than they do enjoying the joyous celebration that love can be.
What causes this disconnect? Why is it that what we most deeply want is also so hard to get and keep?
The reason is this: Love has the power to bring up all of our hidden desires, our deepest and oldest longings and our past hurts.
It acts as a “cosmic searchlight,” revealing problems that we aren’t aware of that wreak havoc on great relationships.
And these problems manifest themselves as symptoms like withdrawal, anger, anxiety, irritation and loneliness.
Most of the time, we don’t even realize what’s happening.
All we know is that our partner seems suddenly distant and inconsiderate, or we feel an undercurrent of anger and disgust with them.
We don’t know that our hidden emotions and fears are at work.
We react to the symptoms, and ignore the real cause.
We unintentionally shut love out, instead of letting it in.
Because we misunderstand the problem, we misunderstand the solution.
Here’s what we want to do:
End the relationship.
Blame the other person.
Seek solace and comfort elsewhere.
But our problems won’t go away if we run. They’ll rear their ugly head the next time we get into a relationship. And the next time.
They’ll repeat over and over again, and often get bigger, until we understand what’s REALLY going on.
But once we learn it, we can STOP these hidden forces from running our love lives, and make conscious choices to create the relationship we’ve always wanted.
We can experience the endless joy and energy love promises, and restore the hope and gratitude we once felt.
Here’s your roadmap to understanding what’s really triggering your love problems, and what you need to do to fully let love into your life: our ebook, Hearts in Harmony.
Hearts in Harmony is the best resource in existence to help you uncover the hidden reasons you’re lacking the closeness and love you really want.
After a combined 90 years of counseling singles and couples on how to fully embrace and expand in love, we know our approach works. We’ve seen thousands of people completely transform their love lives… and we used these same techniques to transform our own relationship when we married almost 35 years ago.
In this powerful new ebook, we reveal the 5 Keys to Heart Harmony. Each of these keys are critical to identifying what’s really running your relationship, and then transform it from a place of tension and despair into one of appreciation and intimacy.
We’ll help you banish the hidden fears that create all sorts of relationship problems, and reveal the most important secrets to fully experiencing and giving love.
Your heart can be in complete harmony: with yourself, with your partner, and with your relationship.
Once this happens, you’ll be able to enjoy all the wonderful possibilities of love, and restore the “magic” you once felt.
The secret to permanently transforming your love life cannot be learned just through reading.
You need to incorporate your whole body.
How many times have you read an article, or a book, or watched a talk show and learned something really valuable, put it into practice, and then forgot about it after the initial “aha” wore off?
How many times did you start something and give it up a few days or weeks later?
There’s a reason this keeps happening.
It’s because you didn’t enlist your most powerful asset in helping your transformation: your body.
The problems you need to solve go deeper than your conscious mind… so you need a deeper solution if you want to trigger meaningful change.
That’s why a cornerstone of all of our teaching is in full body intelligence.
Everything we create enlists all of your emotional, mental and physical being to get the results you want.
And our ebook is no different.
Each key in our ebook gives you several exercises that you can do alone and with your partner to unleash the power of your body and create a real, lasting change.
These exercises become your secret weapon in making sure you don’t just skim through the learning and forget about them the next day. They make the changes permanent, and unlock a whole new way of communicating with yourself and your partner.
In addition to the integrated exercises, we are including a 90 page handbook filled with activities, journal questions, and in-depth training that expands upon the original ebook. These activities go deep. In fact, they’re so comprehensive that over 2,000 therapists worldwide use them in sessions with their clients.
In short, we give you everything you need to completely transform your love life. Now and forever.
Plus – you can choose the format that’s just right for your lifestyle:
With your Hearts In Harmony eBook purchase, you’ll have the opportunity to experience our powerful Lasting Love Every Day video mentoring series. These daily "mini lessons" help couples recommit to more love, better communication and positive feelings in less than 5 minutes a day—and they’re FUN!
You can try the first month of sessions completely free. After that, you’ll be billed automatically for the rest of the 6-month series for only $19.97 per month ($10 off the regular price). That’s less than 1 dollar a day!
Our daily videos are packed with the MOST effective tools and techniques to bring more harmony and resilience to your relationship. If, for any reason, you aren’t completely satisfied within the first month, simply let us know and we will cancel the subscription – no questions asked. You’ll still get to keep access to the first month’s videos for free.
Regular Price: $19.97
You’ll be able to access the book within minutes of purchasing.
Get 7 full days of unlimited access before deciding to keep it.
Not 100% thrilled? Let us know and we’ll give you a full refund.
It’s why you are here, reading this letter. Because you are ready to get to the root of your relationship challenges, and learn how to fully experience the joyous, expansive, ever-satisfying potential of love.
You have nothing to lose, and a lifetime of blissful romance to gain.
Try our ebook today, and change your relationship from the inside out.
P.S. Our ebook works, and we know it in our bones. That’s why we don’t want you to have any reason not to give it a try. So go ahead and give our ebook a “test drive.” Read it, try out the exercises and practice the advice for 7 full days. If it isn’t everything you hoped it would be, you can return it… no questions asked.
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