By Katie & Gay Hendricks
There’s a quick and foolproof test that will tell you why you’re not getting what you want in love.
And this test applies whether you’re single and longing for your Soul Mate, or you’ve been in a relationship for years and can’t seem to work out certain things with your partner.
We’ll tell you about the test in a minute, but first we’d like you to pause for a moment and think about your biggest wish in relationships right now.
If you’re single, you probably want to get off the dating treadmill and find that one special person you’ll share your life with.
Or maybe you think you’ve already found this person, but they can’t seem to fully commit to you.
If you already have a partner, maybe you wish that he or she was more affectionate with you. Or perhaps you two fight about chores all the time, and you feel underappreciated and overworked around the house.
Whatever your wish, you probably want it very badly. And you’ve probably worked hard to get it. So why isn’t it happening for you?
You may think that you’re deeply committed to getting your wish in love – whatever it is – but we’ve found a surprising contradiction. After working with thousands of singles and couples (and experiencing our own relationship difficulties), we know of this startling truth:
You are subconsciously MORE committed to whatever is actually happening in your life.
So, if you seem to only attract commitment-phobes, you’re more committed to staying single.
If you’re going out on countless dates but can’t seem to find “The One”, you’re more committed to staying single.
If you feel that your partner isn’t affectionate enough with you, you’re more committed to not receiving enough affection.
And if you’re exhausted, convinced that your partner doesn’t do his or her fair share around the house, you’re more committed to being taken for granted.
It sounds harsh, but it’s true.
We know this because each of us is a powerful creator. Our mindset, choice, and behavior directly influence whatever happens in our lives. We can use this power to create what we want but also to perpetuate what we DON’T want.
Now, this is all happening on a subconscious level, which is why you feel so frustrated and unable to stop the pattern of whatever negative consequences are happening in your life.
But it doesn’t have to be subconscious. The minute you recognize these unconscious commitments, you can then consciously re-commit to creating different results.
Your first step is to identify these unconscious commitments. So here’s that test:
When a certain situation in your life occurs 3 or more times, it isn’t “random” or “bad luck”. Rather, there is a block in your subconscious mind that is creating the problem.
And bad as it may feel to learn that you are the source of the frustration you are feeling in your love life, it’s actually very, very good news.
Because once you know what’s REALLY causing the problems in your love life, you are finally able to take the right steps to change it!
You will no longer be “unlucky in love” or at the mercy of your unconscious commitments. Instead, you’ll be a powerful creator.
You’ll stop letting your hidden thoughts and emotions run your life, and make conscious choices to drastically change your results.
That insight alone has created radical transformations in the singles and couples we’ve worked with (and in ourselves.) It’s a quick tool you can use anytime to uncover your hidden commitments.
But there is much, much more we’d like to teach you to radically transform your life.
It starts with our free newsletter. In it, we’ll teach you all the proven advice, body intelligence, beliefs and commitments to allow you to fully open yourself up to the miracle of love, and the secret to making it last… forever.
You’ll also learn:
Once you get clear on what’s secretly running your life – including your relationships – there’s no stopping you in creating what you do want.